How To: Be the Psychologist of the hangout
(relationship tips edition)
Sometimes, without even realising it, everyone in my hangout starts to feel more comfortable with me, to share one's problems and inner concerns. Then suddenly, for just some hours, I become the psychologist of the hangout.
But what does it take for someone to give the perfect advice? I guess it all begins with zero judgement. Always know that your personal opinion is for your own personal life, and your personal choices won't necessarily do good and work out for the best for everyone.
Making a difficult decision needs a clear mind. That's why they ask for a piece of advice from third people perspective. Cold strategy! Be certain that the moves that you suggest to someone, will bring the desirable results. Don't ever overdo it!
In some extreme situations in which exists a vicious circle, to see changes means that the person that you give advice to, must change their "moves". "You can't expect from someone to change when you yourself won't change! Be the change you want to see"
-Pete M. Yangin
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